Jinx?

Lately, I have been wondering if it's some sort of jinx....

You see, every time I start to introduce my close friend(s) to mum, as in, tell her their names and what they helped me with, things will happen and my friendship with that person will turn 100x more messier and complicated.

Happened in 2009. Right after I told my mum who those people are, shit happens and the whole group fell out with each other. Well things are slightly better since then but still.

Happened again last month. Or was it July? Can't remember anymore. Mum was like why aren't u telling me the names of ur friends who helped u and got so close to u. And finally I told her. And... weeks later, shit happens. And it's getting messier and I don't know how to fix things anymore.

It's not I don't want to introduce my good friends to mum, I do want to, but... I am more and more afraid of jinxing things up. I know it's really silly and totally unrelated, but why do such "coincidences" keep happening to me?

When my friend told their parents of me, especially being their friend, I feel really warm inside... I want to give some acknowledgement of my friends to my parents too, but... arghhhh... I feel really bad inside too when my parents dunno who are the kind souls who helped their daughter out in the wild.

So is this a jinx? I dunno... I only know I don't like it.